berkahwin pada usia muda memang ada baik buruknya. Melihat insan lain berbahagia bersama keluarga, membakar semangat untukku mendirikan rumah tangga seperti mereka. Biarlah mereka di sekeliling ku menghina atau mencaci diriku kerana keputusan ku untuk berkahwin awal, asalkan diriku bahagia.
argggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh! itu hanyalah khayalan! Perkahwinan bukan sesuatu yang mudah. bagi diriku, aku belom bersedia! '
sometimes I feel weird with someone who is very excited getting married meanwhile herself/himself unable to manage themselves well. For those who know what I am writing, they might know what is my point here. I know married is something happy to share and something that make you more mature to thing about your own life. But do you ever think about your own abilities and behavior?
Here, is some of my checklist opinion that you not ready to get married :
- in everyday life, if u unable to wake up early in the morning and prepare your own breakfast
- unable to tidy her/his own bed every morning
- unable and lazy to clean her/his room or toilet every weekends
- lazy and never clean kitchen area in her own house
- childish behavior that make people around you feel annoying
- unable to make judgement on herself/himself
- unable to accept others opinion without relevant reason
Actually there are lots of my idea but time shows that I must go to bed. For those who have this behavior in my checklist, better don't to over confident to get married! :) enjoy your life with your friends, family and whoever near to you. once you make decision, you can't turn back.
But me, myself wish that I can get married once my financial is stable and I happy with my life. ;) May God bless you all with your life.
|3 year to go Me and my family :)|
|sweet and happy family <3|